by Gill Eardley
A dancer’s response can be easily stifled by choreography, limited movement vocabulary, poor posture, lack of confidence – the dance becoming merely outer technique and form.
In addition to teaching Arabic dance movements, a variety of innovative techniques outside the Arabic form are used which aim towards the discovery of a balance between outer technique and a deep inner response. This then can be taken back into Arabic dance with a heightened quality of confidence, expression and delight.
By Dorothy RagosineI always said that I would write an article that began with the sure fire, eye catching sentence: “It all started with Bellydancing…..” so here it is.
It all started for me with Bellydancing except that it did not begin with Bellydancing at all. It all started when I was born, and born a woman, forty years ago in these United States of America into what could be called a good, white, middle class family. It also happened to be a family which was dominated by large, competent women who all have large breasts. I was one of those women as it later developed – if you forgive the pun.
Ever since the Pope or somebody reasonable said that brevity was the soul of wit, we have been editing marvelously heart rending dramas down into neat, cleaver magazine articles, but to be brief:
It all started with Bellydancing and that was three years ago. At forty, overweight and at a loss for dreams, I would probably have described myself publicly then as a regular middle class housewife and mother of three kids with a “good” marriage. While privately, in a clandestine journal, I wrote, “Although I am a clown, a comic person, overlarge, ridiculously trying to hold my bulk in balance, I cry too much.I wail inside.I cry ultimately, for no reason or reasons that I can piece together……”
Here is a more useful way to approach the pleasant discipline we call learning to dance. Instead of picturing the classes you take as a linear sequence, say Belly Dance basics: Beginning, Advanced Beginning, Intermediate I, Intermediate II, Advanced/Performer – imagine yourself in an evolutionary process called the learning cycle, four distinct stages through which all human beings progress whenever they learn anything new.
First is Unconscious Incompetence. In this stage, you have had little experience of skill. In fact, it’s likely you’re quite bad, but because you don’t know how truly bad you are, you don’t feel bad and your self esteem isn’t crippled. Yet.
True damage to self esteem and the false confidence that coexists with the bliss of ignorance, often occurs in the second stage of learning – Conscious Incompetence. As your awareness evolves into this stage, you begin to realize how little you know.
Perhaps you notice how impossible it seems for you to do much of anything smoothly. You certainly convince yourself that practically everybody at every class is so talented that you’d never think of dancing for the public. At least not any time soon.
She made appearances at Carnival of Stars with long time friend Tanya Lemani-George, attended the pre-convention media dinner for the International Belly Dance Convention where she was awarded a Lifetime Achievement Award for her countless contributions to Bellydance, and most recently, the Las Vegas Bellydance Intensive in 2010 where she was surrounded by old friends, admirers and past students.
On Sunday May 1, 2011, Marliza was rushed by ambulance to Valley Hospital in Las Vegas. She was immediately taken into surgery. Although the doctors doctors were initially optimistic, they worked on her leaking aortic aneurysm for hours, but she wasn't strong enough this time and slipped away in the early hours of Monday morning.
Marliza may have departed but her legacy lives on in all those she taught and inspired. She was one of the great pioneers of Middle Eastern dance in America and is probably doing a bit of catching up right now in dance heaven with Bobby Farrah and Serena Wilson. Look up tomorrow and send her gratitude for a life well lived and imagine her doing a few hands circles back to let you know she is doing just fine.
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